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How Does Homeschooling Impact A Child’s Development for a Lifetime

How Does Homeschooling Impact A Child’s Development for a Lifetime

Homeschooling has become an increasingly popular education choice for families around the world. As a homeschooling mom of 4 with a masters degree in Early Childhood Education, our decision to homeschool was deeply rooted in the science behind how children grow and develop. In this post, we will explore the question how does homeschooling impact a child’s development and analyze how it may it affect them in various aspects of their lives.

7 Practical Ways to Use Positive Parenting with Multiple Children

7 Practical Ways to Use Positive Parenting with Multiple Children

I see you, mama. You want to be calm and connected with your child. You want to be able to respond to your child’s struggles in a respectful way. You want to be able to give your child whatever they need in a moment of distress. The problem is, you don’t just have one child.

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How to Improve your Child’s Behavior Using a “Time-In”

How to Improve your Child’s Behavior Using a “Time-In”

“I’m angry, I need to go take a break”

 

Words I never thought I’d hear my 4-year-old say in the heat of frustration, as he walks himself over to the break area to calm down.

 

Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t how he handles every frustration (actually not even close), but the fact that this happened means that he is ON HIS WAY to learning how to manage his emotions without aggression or outbursts.

 

Isn’t that what every parent wants? For our kids to know how to calm themselves down when they get upset? For them to be able to stop, breathe, and think before acting on their emotions? Of course it is! But how do we help our kids to get there?

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5 Positive Parenting Techniques to Use Instead of Yelling

5 Positive Parenting Techniques to Use Instead of Yelling

No parent WANTS to yell at their kids. That look in your child’s eyes right after you’ve yelled at them feels terrible, I know. I’ve been there too. But there ARE ways to break the cycle and to find a new pattern of behavior, both for you and for your child.

The fact is that every parent at some point or another ends up losing it and yelling at their kids. Every parent has a breaking point. Some parents reach their breaking point after weeks of built-up exhaustion and fatigue, while other parent reach their breaking point nearly every single day.

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How to Get Your Child to Listen The First Time With One Simple Strategy

How to Get Your Child to Listen The First Time With One Simple Strategy

One of the most frustrating aspects of parenting is figuring out how to get your child to listen the *first time* you ask them to do something. Nothing is more irritating that feeling like you need to repeat yourself, yell, or resort to punishment over simple requests. If you are struggling with little kids who don’t listen the first time, stick with me for the one simple strategy that actually works.

But first, here’s why it doesn’t work to repeat yourself in the first place:

 

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The SAHM Schedule that Will Save Your Sanity

The SAHM Schedule that Will Save Your Sanity

I know that this is not the case for every mom, but for me, becoming a stay at home mom was a fulfillment of a dream that I had for a long, long time. I loved being a preschool teacher for many years… but once I had my own kids, all I wanted was to be with them. I didn’t want to miss a moment of their little years.

When I finally took the plunge into stay at home motherhood almost a year ago, I had absolutely no idea what I was in for! Only a stay at home mom can tell you how entirely possible it is to be at home ALL DAY, and still not be able to get one. single. thing. done. Am I right?

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8 Ways to Help Your Child Be More Empathetic

8 Ways to Help Your Child Be More Empathetic

Young children have a lot of BIG feelings, and it is our job to help them learn how to take all of those big feelings and turn them into positive social interactions. On top of teaching them how to act on their own feelings, we also want to make sure that they are also learning how to empathize with others when they are struggling.

Little ones have a hard time with empathy because of one simple reason: They don’t understand theory of mind.

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Your Child Needs to See You Doing These 7 Things Every Day

Your Child Needs to See You Doing These 7 Things Every Day

These days, there is an absolutely overwhelming amount of parenting advice out there. We have access to all the information we could ever want with just the click of a button. As a result of this instant gratification, we become overwhelmed by hearing how SO many other moms do it, start judging ourselves, and enter into a vicious cycle of self-loathing.

Trust me, I’ve been there.

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The #1 Way to End Power Struggles With Your Child

The #1 Way to End Power Struggles With Your Child

The number one frustration of parents everywhere seems to be figuring out how to deal with power struggles. It’s the theme that keeps repeating itself over and over again, from generation to generation.

We’ve come up with all sorts of nifty ideas about how to solve power struggles…. Timeouts and taking away “privileges” always top the list for the most common techniques. Those are closely followed by more positive strategies like giving choices, being playful, or using distractions.

 

But none of these options get to the root of the issue, and therefore none of them work in isolation for very long. To figure out how to solve power struggles once and for all, we need to address where they actually come from.

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